It was just a routine household task--peeling and chopping carrots for our dinner. Jake was watching. "Why do you chop the ends off?" he asked.
"Because they don't taste good."
"Have you ever tasted them?"
"No."
"Then why do you do that?"
"Because when I was little Grandpa Fred taught me to chop the ends off carrots when I peel them."
Whoa, I thought. I've been peeling and cutting carrots this way my whole life because it's what my dad taught me to do. Now I'm a parent. What things am I teaching or not teaching my children that will affect them for the rest of their lives? Boy am I in trouble.
How often do I inadequately teach or fail to teach or inadvertently teach the wrong thing? The mind reels with the possibilities.
A few days later I was helping Jake get ready for bed. I picked up a copy of Santa Claus Is Coming to Town that he had borrowed from the library.
"I don't want a Christmas book about Santa," Jake said. "I want a Christmas book about Jesus. Christmas is really about Jesus and how He came to be our Savior."
Whoa. Did I teach him that?
How many times do I miss the mark in teaching my kids? More than I can count. But there are some things--really one thing--that is more important than anything else. If I can teach them to treasure Jesus Christ and His gospel, everything else is going to be OK.
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Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Monday, December 24, 2012
O Come Let Us Adore Him
We will be spending Christmas Eve morning this year cooking and serving breakfast at the local Ronald McDonald House. Early in the year I was praying about how to help one of our kids, and I felt that we needed to provide them more service opportunities. We did a bit of research and felt good about the Ronald McDonald House.
For those who aren't aware, Ronald McDonald Houses are built around the world to serve families of sick kids who are staying in nearby hospitals. They provide a temporary group home for these families who are enduring medical trauma. After our little road trip to San Francisco a few years ago, we have a lot of compassion for people in these circumstances. We were incredibly blessed that during my cancer adventure Cameron's parents came to San Francisco to care for us and help with Jake, and Cameron's Aunt Kim and Uncle Craig provided a place for us to stay, love, and warm meals when we weren't in the hospital. We will always love all of them for the way they jumped to care for us.
The first time we made breakfast at the Ronald McDonald House I struck up a conversation with a young mother from Idaho. I asked about her baby, and the woman told me the baby was four months old and had cancer in her eye. They were going to the doctor that day to find out whether she would need to have her whole eye removed.
What would it be like to be told that your beautiful baby daughter has cancer and might need to lose an eye?
I told her my story and indicated which of my eyes is a prosthesis. She commented that she felt a lot better after seeing my eye and talking to me. I hope that she went to their doctor's appointments that day with a bit more hope.
The Babe born in Bethlehem so long ago whose birth we celebrate each year with gifts and carols lives today and guides our lives.
He sent dozens of people to my rescue during my cancer ordeal.
And He sent me to a local Ronald McDonald House this year to comfort a young mother whose baby had cancer, too.
O, come let us adore Him.
For those who aren't aware, Ronald McDonald Houses are built around the world to serve families of sick kids who are staying in nearby hospitals. They provide a temporary group home for these families who are enduring medical trauma. After our little road trip to San Francisco a few years ago, we have a lot of compassion for people in these circumstances. We were incredibly blessed that during my cancer adventure Cameron's parents came to San Francisco to care for us and help with Jake, and Cameron's Aunt Kim and Uncle Craig provided a place for us to stay, love, and warm meals when we weren't in the hospital. We will always love all of them for the way they jumped to care for us.
The first time we made breakfast at the Ronald McDonald House I struck up a conversation with a young mother from Idaho. I asked about her baby, and the woman told me the baby was four months old and had cancer in her eye. They were going to the doctor that day to find out whether she would need to have her whole eye removed.
What would it be like to be told that your beautiful baby daughter has cancer and might need to lose an eye?
I told her my story and indicated which of my eyes is a prosthesis. She commented that she felt a lot better after seeing my eye and talking to me. I hope that she went to their doctor's appointments that day with a bit more hope.
The Babe born in Bethlehem so long ago whose birth we celebrate each year with gifts and carols lives today and guides our lives.
He sent dozens of people to my rescue during my cancer ordeal.
And He sent me to a local Ronald McDonald House this year to comfort a young mother whose baby had cancer, too.
O, come let us adore Him.
Monday, December 17, 2012
Personal Cheer Squad
Jake and Abby have been performing various tasks around the house the past few weeks to earn money for Christmas presents. (It's going to be a rough break in January when Mom and Dad are no longer shelling out the change every time they sweep, help cook, or tend Grace.) Jake had agreed to vacuum the basement, but he was running out of steam.
"I want you to help me!" he whined.
"What do you want me to do?" I asked. It seemed obvious that if I did it for him, he wouldn't get the money. Jokingly I continued, "Should I cheer for you?" I put on my most dramatic cheer moves (be grateful you weren't there to witness this) and shouted, "Go Jacob! Go Jacob! Go Jacob! Go!"
Much to my surprise, he agreed. "Sit on the couch and cheer," he instructed.
I did, and I've never seen such zealous vacuuming.
But then again, who wouldn't want a cheering section?
Maybe I'll add "Mom's personal cheer squad" to the kids' Christmas fundraising options. I better go buy some pom poms.
"I want you to help me!" he whined.
"What do you want me to do?" I asked. It seemed obvious that if I did it for him, he wouldn't get the money. Jokingly I continued, "Should I cheer for you?" I put on my most dramatic cheer moves (be grateful you weren't there to witness this) and shouted, "Go Jacob! Go Jacob! Go Jacob! Go!"
Much to my surprise, he agreed. "Sit on the couch and cheer," he instructed.
I did, and I've never seen such zealous vacuuming.
But then again, who wouldn't want a cheering section?
| Mom is awesome, Mom is cool! Watch her use those cleaning tools! |
| Go, Mom, go! Iron those clothes! |
| Hip hip hooray! Pancakes today! |
| Watch out dust and watch out crumbs! Watch out dirt 'cause here she comes! |
| Our Mom rocks! She washes all our socks! |
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